make the stats mentioned in subject, drop slow towards their max value
instead of currently buggy instant drop to max, which causes
few stupid issues with eqswapping.

Also currently eps are not affected by the 'cutter', seems like
some lazy sucker didnt care to cut-paste-edit 2 lines as this
did not affect eq-parties.

And ye, some other l... f..... didnt put epmax check to ventuers way.