Even if it may appear, this coin of yours has also another side. I'll take a
step backward and think objectively of this nonsense everyone (and now, me
too!) posts here. One's assumptions might be the base for one's life - and
these standards do not define only one's behaviour, but also one's
self-esteem. Similarly, if we constantly 'turn our other cheeks', being humble
and all that - there are those who do not, and do not necessarily see it your
way. Even if your world is full of sitting and idling in academic cafes'
sipping latte and playing bat with your laptop -- the world of others may be
full of outright survival of the fittest while battling with the
bureaucracies. (and playing bat, for our purpose.) ,-)

The mudego(R) is what our mind thinks it to be. It is a clear projection of
ourselves, that has been built of our _RL_ life experiences - our body, sex,
race, religion, culture, education, sociality, fears and lusts. And we have
been given the burden to create an intact and wise mudego. Therefore, we
should know who we are, and therefore we should be able to protect this
identity/projection.

Developing your allmighty mudego (doesn't matter whether it's a mudego of a
manly mudder or that of a whiny tale elf) is like building a fortress against
reality. However, isn't it so, that in war -- a fortress becomes more of a
prison to its lord? The better one recognizes to be representing something
that is dear to oneself, the more one is to reject the opposite. Because of
that, the minds that are the strong from one behalf, are in fact the most
incomplete.

Have a nice day.