Her Side of the Story: He was in an odd mood Saturday night. We planned to
meet at a pub for a drink, I spent the afternoon shopping with the girls and I
thought it might have been my fault because I was a bit later than I promised,
but he didn't say anything much about it. The conversation was very slow going
so I thought we should go off somewhere more intimate so we could talk more
privately. We went to this restaurant and he was still acting a bit funny, so
I tried to cheer him up and started to wonder whether it was me or something
else. I asked him, and he said no but I wasn't really sure. So anyway, in the
car on the way back home I said that I loved him deeply and he just put his
arm around me. I didn't know what the hell that meant because you know he
didn't say it back or anything, this is really worrying me. We finally got
back home and I was wondering if he was going to leave me! So I tried to get
him to talk but he just switched on the TV and sat with a distant look in his
eyes that seemed to say 'its all over between us'. Reluctantly, I said I was
going to bed, then after about 10 minutes, he joined me and to my surprise he
responded to my advances and we made love. But he still seemed really
distracted, so afterwards I just wanted to confront him but I just cried
myself to sleep. I just don't know what to do anymore. I mean, I really think
he is seeing someone else and that my life is a disaster.