If all of your friends are invited to a party, but the hosts have not
contacted you, no invitation and they refuse to answer their cellphone when
you try to call. Would you have your mom or dad to talke to their mom and dad
so they could get you to the party? Because that is basically what you ask
for, idea for invite-only, let it be a ss or a race or a guild, is exactly
that. If they dont want Ssmud to join, they have a say about it.